Holy smokes, Ray! My wife and I have been married for 46 years, are retired, tow our RPod with a 2006 Toyota Tacoma, and have a Voyager brake control. Are you channeling me? We do live diagonally clear across the contiguous 48 states from you in Washington State.
We have an EAZ-LIFT WDH and tow without sway control. The Rpod follows our Tacoma well, and the Tacoma does a fine job of towing. If you haven't pulled much with the Toyota, you'll find that it does a great job, even though, if like ours, the mileage will be about cut in half--10 to 13 mpg towing for our 4.0 v/6. The 4 cyl Tacoma engines are good engines, too, but not quite as able in demanding towing conditions.
Welcome aboard, and there are lotsa good peolpe here to give you any needed advice.